Listen to my Stories...
Sunday, January 3, 2010 ♥ 6:33 PM
Consolation
Had shared tips for woo-ing...
how bout tips for consolin your partners??

sometimes when your partner is sad...
cryin...
and you are at a lost...
speak nothin...
go up to her front...
hug her...
use your hand and guide her head to your shoulders...
and stroke her head/hair...
or...
let her share her story first...
keep quiet and listen...
when she finished...
your turn to tell her a story...
a story that can distract her thoughts...
a story that can humour her...

example.
she said she did her best in a competition...
but lost miserably...
then you tell her a story of the rabbit and tortoise race...
keep the story slow...
addin details to it...
so that she follows your story and not in her sad world...
lastly ask her...
moral of story??
tortoise won because of not givin up...
and tell her you be there for her... *she definitely needs your support*
Labels: Tips
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